Embracing a New Lifestyle: Our Move from San Diego to Northern Spain
Moving from the sun-soaked beaches of San Diego to the lush, rainy landscapes of northern Spain was a leap of faith that has transformed our lives in ways we never anticipated. The most striking difference has been the shift from a car-dependent lifestyle to one that values walkability and community. In San Diego, the reliance on cars was a way of life, but in the Basque Country, where we now reside, we’ve discovered the joy of exploring our surroundings on foot or by bus. The ability to walk to local markets, cafes, and parks has not only improved our physical health but also deepened our connection to the community. The efficient and affordable public transit system here has been a revelation—buses and trains connect us to nearby towns, coastal villages, and even Paris, making exploration effortless. This change has been a breath of fresh air, especially after returning to California and enduring the frustration of traffic-filled days spent behind the wheel.
Rediscovering Work-Life Balance: The Spanish Way of Life
One of the most cherished aspects of our new life in Spain is the emphasis on work-life balance and socializing. Sundays, in particular, have become a day of rest and connection. While we initially found it challenging to adjust to shops closing for the day, we soon grew to appreciate the opportunity to slow down and prioritize family and relaxation. Our Sundays are now filled with leisurely four- or five-hour lunches, peaceful beach strolls, and hikes in the nearby mountains. This cultural norm has taught us the value of unplugging and spending quality time with loved ones. In contrast to our fast-paced life in California, where work often intruded on personal time, Spain’s approach has allowed us to adopt a more mindful and present lifestyle. The midday siesta, though initially surprising, has become a cherished part of our routine, giving us the chance to recharge and connect with our children during their two-hour lunch break. These moments, unimaginable in our former life, have brought us closer as a family and reminded us of the importance of balance.
A Shift in Mealtime Traditions: Learning to Savor Life
Our mealtimes have undergone a significant transformation since moving to Spain. In California, lunch was often a quick, desk-side affair, and dinner was an rushed event. Here, meals are seen as opportunities to socialize and unwind. For instance, our children now enjoy a two-hour lunch break at school, allowing them to either eat at school or return home to share a meal with us. This has been a game-changer for working parents like us, as it allows us to spend more time with our kids during the day. The evening routine has also evolved, with pre-dinner gatherings in local bars and cafes becoming a regular occurrence. A glass of wine or beer paired with a pintxo (a bite-sized snack) is a delightful way to connect with friends before returning home for a late dinner, often around 9 p.m. or later. This slower, more deliberate approach to meals has taught us to savor each moment and appreciate the simple joys of sharing food and conversation with others.
The Cost of Living: Finding Financial Freedom in Spain
Another remarkable difference between our life in California and Spain is the cost of living. Despite the rising prices since our arrival, Spain remains incredibly affordable compared to San Diego. A café con leche, for example, typically costs under 2 euros here, whereas a latte in San Diego would have set us back around $7. Even a glass of wine, which can range from 2 to 4 euros in Spain, is far more affordable than the $18 we’d often spend in California. The tipping culture in Spain has also been a welcome change—it’s appreciated but not expected, which has helped us save money. This financial freedom has allowed us to enjoy a higher quality of life without the constant stress of high expenses. Whether it’s dining out, exploring local markets, or traveling, we’ve found that our money goes much further here, giving us the opportunity to live more fully and enjoy the beauty of our new home.
Socializing and Community: A Priority in Spanish Culture
Socializing is woven into the fabric of Spanish life, and this cultural emphasis has been a delightful adjustment for us. In California, much of our social interaction was limited to weekends or special occasions, but here, connecting with others is a daily priority. From casual gatherings in plazas and cafes to impromptu conversations with neighbors, the Spanish approach to socializing has enriched our lives. The concept of “terrace culture,” where friends and family meet for drinks and snacks, has become a staple of our evenings. These informal gatherings have helped us build stronger relationships and feel more integrated into our community. In contrast to the isolating nature of car-centric life in California, Spain’s emphasis on face-to-face interaction has made us feel more connected and grounded in our new home.
Raising Children in Spain: A New Perspective on Family and Education
The experience of raising our children in Spain has been one of the most rewarding aspects of our move. The midday break, or siesta, has been particularly beneficial, allowing us to spend quality time with our kids during the day. In California, school lunches were often rushed, with only 30 minutes allocated for eating and recess. Here, the two-hour lunch break gives our children the time they need to relax and recharge. The school day is longer as a result, but the emphasis on balance and well-being is evident. Additionally, the lower cost of living has allowed us to provide a more comfortable and enriching life for our children, from exploring the region to participating in local activities. The prioritization of family and community in Spain has given our children a sense of security and belonging, and we’re grateful to be raising them in such a nurturing environment.
Gratitude for a Slower, More Present Life
As we reflect on our journey from San Diego to northern Spain, we’re struck by the profound changes that have enriched our lives. The walkability of our new home, the emphasis on work-life balance, and the affordability of daily life have allowed us to slow down and appreciate the small joys of living. The cultural differences we’ve encountered have, at times, been challenging, but they’ve also taught us valuable lessons about the importance of connection, relaxation, and savoring each moment. Our Sundays are now days of rest and connection, our meals are opportunities to bond with loved ones, and our evenings are filled with laughter and conversation. While we miss the sunshine of California, we’ve gained something far more precious—a deeper sense of community, a slower pace of life, and a renewed appreciation for the beauty of the present moment. Each day, we’re reminded of how grateful we are to have made this move and to be living a life that feels more authentic and fulfilling.
