Kate Hudson Embraces Her Path to Marriage on Her Own Terms
No Rush to the Altar: Kate Hudson Opens Up About Her Engagement
Kate Hudson is taking her time when it comes to tying the knot with her fiancé, Danny Fujikawa. The couple has been engaged for over three years, and Hudson recently shared her thoughts on marriage during an appearance on The Drew Barrymore Show. When asked about her decision to delay the wedding, Hudson admitted that the idea of a "contractual" marriage doesn’t sit well with her. "The contractual thing is tough for me," she said. "I like my freedom. I like the concept of freedom." This perspective has led her to consider the idea of being "engaged forever," enjoying the commitment without the formalities of marriage.
The Influence of Her Unconventional Upbringing
Hudson’s views on marriage are heavily influenced by her parents, Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell, who have been together since 1983 but have never tied the knot. "They never signed the contract," Hudson pointed out. "They’ve been engaged since I was 7." Growing up in a household where a lifelong partnership didn’t require a marriage certificate has shaped her perspective on love and commitment. For Hudson, the idea of marriage is more about personal choice and freedom than societal expectations.
Wedding Planning: A Source of Stress, Not Excitement
When it comes to wedding planning, Hudson confessed that she doesn’t feel the same excitement that many people do. "I just don’t have the same kind of like, ‘Oh my God, I’m going to get married … and I can’t wait for the party!’" she explained. Instead, she feels overwhelmed by the practical aspects of planning a wedding. "I’m like, ‘OK, I have to plan it, and then it’s going to cost so much money,’ and it’s just a lot." While she’s open to the idea of eloping, she still wants to enjoy some of the traditional wedding experiences, like having a "gravy boat" at the reception.
A Long and Happy Relationship with Danny Fujikawa
Hudson and Fujikawa, a musician and the co-founder of Lightwave Records, began dating in 2016 after being friends for 15 years. Their relationship has been a slow burn, with the couple taking their time to build a life together. They welcomed their daughter, Rani Rose, in 2018, and Hudson also has two sons, Ryder Robinson and Bingham Hawn Bellamy, from her previous relationships with Chris Robinson and Matt Bellamy, respectively. The couple got engaged in September 2021, and Hudson debuted her engagement ring at the 2021 Met Gala. Despite their engagement, they are in no hurry to formalize their union, preferring to focus on their partnership and family life.
Embracing Freedom and Commitment on Her Own Terms
Hudson’s approach to marriage reflects her larger philosophy on life: she values freedom and autonomy, both in her personal and professional life. While she is deeply committed to Fujikawa, she believes that marriage is a personal choice, not a societal obligation. "I like my freedom," she reiterated. "I like the concept of freedom." For Hudson, the idea of being engaged forever allows her to enjoy the best of both worlds—commitment without the constraints of a formal marriage contract.
A Modern Take on Love and Partnership
In conclusion, Kate Hudson’s comments on marriage and engagement offer a refreshing perspective on love and partnership in the modern world. By embracing her freedom and rejecting societal expectations, she is redefining what it means to be in a committed relationship. Whether she and Fujikawa decide to tie the knot in the future or remain "engaged forever," one thing is clear: Hudson is happy with her choices, and that’s all that truly matters.