Leaving California: A Journey to Affordability and Community in Kansas
An Escape from California’s High Cost of Living
Kaitlyn Sundberg and her husband, Jack, once felt trapped by the soaring cost of living in California. The Golden State, renowned for its beaches and opportunities, had become an unaffordable dream for the young couple. For two years, they lived in a cramped 300-square-foot studio apartment in Hesperia, California, built in Jack’s parents’ garage. While they were grateful for the minimal rent, which helped them save, the lack of privacy and space made them yearn for a home of their own. After marrying in 2022, the couple began envisioning a future with children, realizing that California’s housing prices were too high for them to achieve their goals. This realization sparked their decision to leave California and seek a more affordable life elsewhere.
Exploring New Horizons: The Decision to Move to Kansas
The Sundbergs initially considered moving to states like Washington, South Carolina, and Oregon, but high housing costs in these areas were similar to those in California. Jack applied for jobs in these states, but no opportunities materialized. It wasn’t until Jack landed a job in Kansas—a state Kaitlyn had reservations about due to her fear of tornadoes—that their journey to the Midwest began. Despite her concerns, Kaitlyn encouraged Jack to pursue the opportunity, and they took a leap of faith. Within two months, they packed their bags and moved to Kansas, unsure of what lay ahead but hopeful for a fresh start.
Discovering the Perfect Home in Neodesha
Upon arriving in Kansas, the Sundbergs initially settled in Wichita but soon began searching for a home. Their house hunt was not without challenges, as homes in their price range were quickly snatched up. However, when Kaitlyn stumbled upon a listing in Neodesha, a small town with fewer than 2,000 residents, she knew they had found something special. Driving through the quiet streets of Neodesha, they were greeted by the charm of a softball game, children riding bikes, and a bustling neighborhood pool. The sense of community was palpable, and Kaitlyn found herself tearing up at the sight. The home they viewed that day—a spacious four-bedroom, two-bathroom ranch-style house on 0.7 acres—felt like the perfect fit. They made an offer, and within 24 hours, it was accepted. Purchased for $240,000, the home was a far cry from the $800,000 to $900,000 it would have cost in California, a testament to the stark difference in the cost of living between the two states.
Adjusting to Life in a Small Town
The transition from California to a small town in Kansas was not without its challenges. Coming from a bustling state where privacy was a norm, Kaitlyn found herself surprised by the close-knit nature of Neodesha. Simple trips to the grocery store became opportunities for lengthy conversations, a far cry from the anonymity of city life. However, as time passed, the Sundbergs began to embrace the warm, welcoming atmosphere of their new community. The sense of safety and camaraderie, where everyone looked out for one another, began to feel like home. Kaitlyn soon found herself enjoying the small-town life, where a wave or a smile from a neighbor became a daily occurrence.
Building a Life in Neodesha
Kaitlyn Sundberg wasted no time in building a life for herself in Neodesha. A graduate with a degree in Liberal Studies and a focus on elementary education, she initially commuted an hour to her job as a childcare center director in nearby Iowa, Kansas. However, when a job opening arose at an early learning center just around the corner from her home, she seized the opportunity. Not only did she secure the director position, but she also played a key role in establishing the center from the ground up. Her involvement extended beyond her job; she joined the Neodesha Area Chamber of Commerce, where she now sits on the board, further immersing herself in the community. Today, Kaitlyn is a familiar face in Neodesha, attending community events and connecting with locals on a daily basis. Her role in the town has given her a sense of purpose and belonging.
No Regrets: Embracing a New Chapter in Kansas
Two years after their move, Kaitlyn and Jack Sundberg are thriving in their new life in Kansas. They have no regrets about leaving California, a state they once called home but could no longer afford. The thought of returning to California’s high cost of living, crowded streets, and stressful traffic is unappealing. Kaitlyn reflects on a recent visit to California, where she was struck by the impersonal nature of the people and the overwhelming crowds, experiences that reinforced her gratitude for the slower, friendlier pace of life in Kansas. While they miss certain big-city amenities, such as boutiques and restaurants, they are content with the sense of community and affordability that Neodesha offers. For Kaitlyn and Jack, Kansas has become more than just a place to live—it has become a true home, where they are building a life filled with purpose, joy, and connection.
