A New York Love Story: A Bench, A Proposal, and a Legacy of Love
Jack Ciapciak, a 32-year-old television writer from New York, has captured the hearts of millions with his poignant tale of love, loss, and resilience. His story, shared on TikTok, has gone viral, drawing attention to a humble park bench in Hudson River Park that holds profound significance. The bench was where Jack proposed to his late fiancé, Jack Lorentzen, just two months before his unexpected passing. This touching narrative has not only honored Lorentzen’s memory but has also created a ripple effect, resonating with people worldwide who have experienced similar grief.
A Love Story Born on the West Side Highway
Ciapciak’s journey with Lorentzen began on a fateful evening in January 2016 when they met for drinks at Finnerty’s in the East Village. Set up by mutual friends named Kate, their first date was nothing short of magical. Ciapciak was immediately struck by Lorentzen’s radiant smile and joyful spirit. Despite his initial doubt about Lorentzen’s interest, the two quickly fell deeply in love. Their connection was undeniable, and within just three weeks, they confessed their love for each other, marking the start of a beautiful seven-year relationship.
A Proposal That Changed Everything
In September 2022, Ciapciak decided to take their relationship to the next level. He meticulously planned a proposal that would be etched in their memories forever. Choosing a spot along the West Side Highway, near the LGBT Memorial facing Hoboken, where the couple had shared their early days, Ciapciak surprised Lorentzen with a bench engraved with the words, "Jack, Will you marry me? Love, Jack." The emotional moment was followed by a sunset cruise with their families, celebrating their engagement. The bench was not just a symbol of their love but also a promise of a future together, with plans to update the plaque to commemorate their wedding date, October 14, 2023.
Tragedy Strikes: A Life Cut Short
In a heart-wrenching twist, Lorentzen’s life was tragically cut short. On Christmas Eve 2022, he passed away suddenly due to an undiagnosed heart condition at the age of 30. Ciapciak’s world was shattered, leaving him to grapple with the loss of not only his past with Lorentzen but also the future they had envisioned together. On what would have been their wedding day, family and friends gathered at the bench to honor Lorentzen’s memory, transforming the spot into a poignant memorial.
Finding Solace in Grief and Connection
In the aftermath of his loss, Ciapciak found solace in his daily walks to the bench, which became a sanctuary for him. He began sharing his thoughts and emotions on TikTok, initially as a way to express his grief without burdening his loved ones. However, his raw honesty and vulnerability resonated deeply with millions, amassing over 30,000 followers. People from all walks of life connected with his story, sharing their own tales of loss and finding comfort in his words. The bench, now a symbol of enduring love, has also become a place where others come to honor their own loved ones, leaving flowers and memories behind.
A Legacy of Love and Healing
Ciapciak’s story has transcended personal grief, offering hope and healing to many. Encouraged by the overwhelming response, he plans to write a book detailing their love story and his journey through loss. The bench in Hudson River Park, with its new plaque inscribed with a quote from Lorentzen’s favorite movie, "Never Been Kissed" — "Find out who you are and try not to be afraid of it" — stands as a testament to Lorentzen’s legacy of authenticity and courage. For Ciapciak, this journey has brought unexpected peace, knowing that their love story continues to inspire and comfort others. As he often says, "Visit Jack," inviting people to experience the beauty of their love and the enduring power of the human spirit.
